There are 3 myths that most driven and ambitious women believe about pursuing their dreams.
Let’s debunk each one of them.
- I am not enough/I don’t deserve this
Doing this work, I have seen so many amazing global wonder women (who can lead a conference call with the same ease and grace that they strike an asana and network their way through a charity event ) that have this one belief in common.
I am NOT ENOUGH. Not good enough, smart enough, not confident enough, not pretty enough, not thin enough, not selfless enough,… you fill in the blank.
When you believe you are not worthy and not enough you make decisions from a place of lack, always trying to fill the void of not-enoughness, to seek approval and validation. This belief prevents you from working on your dreams and making them a reality because your brain always finds evidence that there is something “wrong with you”, that you are broken and undeserving.
- There is no time.
It seems like: Everyone seems to want a piece of you. You are taking care of your husband, the kids…the social life, planning the family trips. You are overwhelmed and constantly catering to the needs of others, because you believe there is never enough time and you won’t be able to get it all done.
You start resenting your husband for all of the extra (amazing) social events he drags you to…and at the end you feel exhausted and energy drained.
No wonder you cannot focus on your dreams!
- I am not in charge
By thinking you are not in charge of your life, or the decisions that are being made FOR YOU, you give your power away. You feel helpless and defeated, small and powerless. This belief doesn’t serve you in any way. It provides temporary relief but can be detrimental in the long run. You start hiding rather than really going after your dreams. And there are so many distractions, so many false pleasures, and false desires to enjoy at the moment that you never really get to the place of FLOW to create the things you want in life. You think: “I am taken care of” and “Do I really need to do it anyway?” And then you give up. On yourself and on your dreams.
Any of those ring true for you? Thought so.
The good news is that all of these beliefs are just sentences in your brain. Sentences that you have thought over and over again.
All of your growth is in the discomfort. It is outside your comfort zone.
Let me show you how you can rewire your brain and think differently on purpose.
Ready to use this work to finally create a life where you enjoy success without the stress?